grit.
amie and i were taught many things as kids…how to ride a bike, always say thank you, don’t skip school (oh wait, wrong family)…anywho, you get the point.
but probably definitely (you like that? “probably definitely”…yes, it is a correct form of speech…i just made it up..because i’m indecisive. probably definitely.) one of the most important things we were taught is how to work. we were taught the value of physical labor.
gettin’ down and dirty.
sweat-on-your-brow and dirt-under-your-fingernails type of work. muscles achin’, back-breakin’, baby-needs-a-new-pair-of-shoes kind of work.
GRIT.
we were raised with no gender limitations. in fact, my favorite shirt when i was a little girl said: “anything boys can do, girls can do better.”
we were taught how to build fence, use power tools, how to properly go muddin’ on a 4-wheeler (i think we actually probably definitely figured that one out on our own)…
we didn’t learn how to work by being FORCED….to do chores. to work in the restaurant. to ‘earn our keep’.
we learned from watching them. mom and dad, side by side. working. and laughing. and keeping the family together through those 2 things.
which i believe now is the reason we love hard work. we appreciate and respect it. dare i say, we revere it.
and yes, we enjoy it.
there’s something about being out of your office. away from your desk. disconnected. and reconnecting with the value of manual labor. working with your hands. your head. and your muscles. there’s something great about accomplishing something concrete. something you can feel and see. and pat yourself on the back for.
and through hard work, all things seem to have more intrinsic value.
which i guess is why they call it sweat equity.
get out there. get some sweat equity in something. and be a real rebel….leave your cell phone in the car. it’ll make the sweat even sweeter.
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I was raised exactly the same and by all means our kids need to learn the same things we did!! Gott love some grit!! Y’all rock!!!
Love it!
That is what makes you sooooo Successful…..Hard Work, and it has sure payed off for you!!!! I admire that!
Junkin Hugs……Cathy
I TOTALLY had a pair of those sneaker skates too!! LOVED ‘EM!!
Love this.. Hard working girls and women should be proud.. My Dad used to tell me ” Hunny, you are the best boy I got!!” Made me feel great..
This post got me so in the mood to do somethin’ outside….diggin’ in the garden, power-washin’ the house (oh yes- in West Texas you HAVE to!), or maybe even get out my fav paint brush and hit the front door! Yep, that’s what I’d be doin’, if it didn’t just drop to a cool 15 degrees wind chill outside! Oh well…keep the inspirations comin’!
Cheers!
Great story Jolie! I have seen it first hand…You are one hard working-successful-loving-hands-on-handful family!! xoxoxo
Great inspiriation! I love ya’ll, and live viraciously through you!Keep up the good work, girls@
This is how my parents raised my brother and I. It’s a great way to grow up and has made us the people we are today!! This is the way kids should be raised. Ya’ll are fabulous!
Girls…y’all are legacies into your mama and daddy’s School of Life…and a well lived one at that!
BTW…just how much is sweat worth on the Dow Jones? Some of us might be gazillionaires by now!
Deb
I grew up….very 1st job….punchin’ cattle in the back of Lee County Stockyards….and I was good at it. I did it every summer, every Monday we had off, any chance I got. I would come home completely covered in dust and cow crap. I know…sounds lovely, but I LOVED it & miss it as I sit here typing…avoiding computer work that I’m supposed to be doing. In fact I miss it so much I wrote a blog about it. Funny how you go through life and realize what you think is important isn’t….and you go to figurin’ out a way to get back to the GRIT ๐ of what made us who we are.
BTW – I just picked up my dress for Junk Prom @ a rummage sale yesterday in Corpus!!! Can. Not. Wait!
Thank you for valuing, modeling, & appreciating true GRIT. From one griity girl to another…
I love this! I was raised the same way, and I’m thankful for that every day!
Yep, the harder I work, the luckier I get!! GOD Bless GIRLS!!!
I wholeheartedly agree…ditto…amen…go girl! Raised the same way says the woman who can don a hazmat suit and high heels (although not at the same time)!
You betcha! you girls are awesome, and do it so much better than boys (although they are nice too ๐ . See you soon!